Have I crossed a line?

Not about shame. About clarity.

Why This Matters

Harassment isn’t always obvious. Sometimes it’s not loud or violent—it’s subtle. A “joke,” a touch, a comment, or pressure that didn’t feel like a big deal to you… but it did to the other person.

This space is here to help you reflect, not punish.

  • Quick Reality Check

    Ask yourself:

    • Did the other person look uncomfortable, go quiet, or pull away?
    • Did I push after they said “no,” even softly?
    • Did I joke at someone’s expense, even if I thought it was harmless?
    • Did I ignore a boundary—verbal or nonverbal?

    👉 If you’re asking this question, it already means you care.

    TRY THE SELF-CHECK TOOL 

  • Why People Cross Lines (Without Meaning To)

    • Mixed signals or unclear boundaries.
    • Social norms that excuse certain behavior.
    • Not recognizing silence as discomfort.
    • Thinking persistence = interest.

    It doesn’t make you “a monster”—but it does mean you can pause, learn, and choose better next time.

    CHECK OUR BOUNDARIES & CONSENT TOOLKIT 

  • What You Can Do Next

    • Acknowledge: Even if you didn’t “mean it,” it matters how it landed.
    • Repair: Apologize with honesty, no excuses.
    • Change: Learn new ways to respect boundaries.
    • Grow: Doing better starts here.
    HOW TO APOLOGIZE (FOR REAL) 

Remember
This isn’t about labeling you forever—it’s about not staying blurry.
Reflection is powerful. Repair is possible. Respect is the baseline.

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